TODAY I WILL:  

Do one thing just because it brings me joy.

Cuffing season is on pause indefinitely, but the glow-up era is just getting started.

• All the cool girls are single. 

• Women are swapping symptoms in secret group chats.

• The crying selfie dilemma.

• The breakthrough that might end bad hair days. 

• The next big frontier in women’s health research is hiding in plain sight.

Debt relief, decoded.

Feeling weighed down by debt? You’re not alone—more Americans are turning to structured strategies to get their finances back on track. So, where do you start? According to a new study from the National Foundation for Credit Counseling, there are five smart approaches to debt relief. They’re not one-size-fits-all, but depending on your situation, one could be your ticket to financial freedom.

1. Consolidate and simplify: If you’re juggling multiple balances, a debt consolidation loan can merge them into one payment, ideally with a lower interest rate. This can make budgeting easier and reduce what you owe over time.

2. Negotiate your debt: A debt settlement program involves working with creditors to accept less than what you owe. It can hurt your credit in the short term, but it may offer fast relief for those drowning in balances.

3. Seek expert help: Credit counseling agencies can set you up with a debt management plan, helping you organize payments and sometimes secure lower interest rates through partnerships with lenders.

4. Look into bankruptcy (as a last resort): If your debt is truly unmanageable, Chapter 7 or 13 bankruptcy can wipe out or restructure what you owe. It’s a serious decision, but it can offer a clean slate.

5. Revisit your habits: No matter which route you choose, the long-term key is sustainable financial behavior—tracking spending, building savings, and avoiding new high-interest debt.

Pro tip: Before committing to any plan, make sure you understand fees, timelines, and how it’ll affect your credit. The goal isn’t just to be debt-free—it’s to stay that way.

What’s your skincare non-negotiable?

While every step counts, one habit clearly takes the (clean) cake. Almost 40% of you said washing your face before bed is a must—no matter how long the day (or night) was, but 29% are team sunscreen, every single day. Future you will thank you! Another 17% prioritize hydration inside and out (cue the giant water bottle). And 16% never skip a nightly routine, even if it means double cleansing at midnight.

How to Start a Book Club (And Why You Should).

From Reese Witherspoon’s literary empire to Dua Lipa’s cultural deep-dives, book clubs have officially entered their It Girl era. But while the celeb stamp of approval is fun, the real magic? It’s what happens after the reading.

Today, book clubs have taken on many variations. So while the traditional format suggests a group of friends get together monthly after reading the assigned book, many are shaking it up by getting together to enjoy discussing the books they read on their own or to swap and trade new favorites. Groups who fan-girl over specific authors also attend author discussions and new release parties at their local bookstores. One group even took it up a level by merging their walking club and literary love by organizing an audiobook club. 

No matter what form, book clubs are becoming powerful micro-communities where stories turn into connections.

Bianca Bahamondes, an expert in building community as an Executive at Secret NYC and founder of the Secret Book Club, told The Newsette that these gatherings go way beyond the book.

“It’s not just about the topic itself, but the sense of belonging that comes with it,” she said. “When people connect over something they truly love, that loyalty and excitement can be really strong.”

Bianca’s own book club started as a casual conversation between coworkers. “Some colleagues and I realized we were reading the same books... I also personally felt like I was missing that sense of community, so I decided to build it myself.”

Her bookish brainchild is well on its way to becoming a thriving hub for readers who have gathered in places like Bibliotheque, the bookstore meets cafe and wine bar. 

So, thinking about starting your own? Here are Bianca’s top tips:

Read early. Depending on how you plan to run your group, it helps to read the book ahead of time so you can guide conversations with confidence.

Be consistent. Choose a clear direction, whether that’s specific genres, themes, or vibes, and stick with it. Consistency helps the group stay engaged and makes decision-making easier.

Be a reader first.