The secret to a great (booze-free) party
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December 28, 2025

Throw a lively New Year’s Eve party — no booze necessary

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When actor and chef David Burtka decided to stop drinking almost a decade ago, there weren’t many enticing options for nonalcoholic cocktails that didn’t mimic childish juices or boring seltzers. At around the same time, Burtka’s husband, Neil Patrick Harris, was becoming more interested in mixology.

“The cocktail and the mocktail must coexist!” the two decided. It’s an ethos they have stuck with as frequent hosts — and one that’s extremely adaptable for your own gathering.

Burtka says you don’t need an arsenal of professional gear to create delicious homemade libations or to make your guests feel at home. Little things can make all the difference, like using coupes instead of martini glasses (coupes are less spill-prone and make walking across a room less stressful), or putting out conversation-starter cards to help shy guests join the chatter.

And don’t forget to prep ahead of time. “No one likes a host that’s not there and didn’t even see you all night,” says Burtka, “I want to enjoy my friends.” And they want to enjoy you, too. Have fun out there this week.

David Burtka and Neil Patrick Harris’ best tips for a lively party, booze optional→

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Plus: The best barware for making cocktails (or mocktails) at home

A selection of home bar supplies reviewed for this guide.
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Though the all-inclusive bar toolkit might be convenient, it’s probably designed more for looks than functionality. You’re better off buying each element individually. Our experts have gathered all their favorite tools — from shakers and glassware to strainers and citrus juicers. Plus, how to use them to up your at-home bartender skills.

Cheers→

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One last thing: Gifts that say “I’m fun at parties”

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ColourPop, NYT Wirecutter; illustrations by Con McHugh for NYT Wirecutter

While your sparkling personality and a nice bottle are wonderful additions to the party, you can do even better. Our expert suggestions? Temporary tattoos, a mini photo printer, and a hilarious game that involves pieing yourself in the face, to name a few.

9 things to change the trajectory of a party for the better→

Hope you’re having a lovely last Sunday of 2025.

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