N.Y. Today: How a family of 4 lives on $168,000
Babysitters? No. Big vacations? Yes.
New York Today
February 15, 2026

The affordability crisis is having a profound effect on the lives of New Yorkers. Whether the topic is rent, food, child care or the occasional splurge on a matcha latte, the question on everyone’s mind is: How much money do you have, and how do you spend it?

Erika Fernandez-Pacheco and Manuel Pacheco hold their two daughters in their arms.
The Pacheco family — Erika, Manuel and their two daughters — are making it work in Queens. Anna Watts for The New York Times

Every Sunday, we’ll introduce you to a different family or individual and walk you through how they’re making it work in New York — one of the most expensive cities on the planet — and why living there feels worth it to them. This week, meet the Pacheco family.

Who are they? Erika Fernandez-Pacheco, her husband, Manuel Pacheco, and their two daughters live on about $168,000 a year.

Where do they live? In a two-bedroom, 700-square-foot apartment in East Elmhurst, Queens. Their landlord has not raised their monthly $1,800 rent since 2021, when they moved in.

How do they save?

  • Never paying for babysitters and instead relying on grandparents.
  • Enrolling their oldest daughter, who is 4, in the city’s free pre-K program.
  • Semiannual trips to Jetro to stock up on frozen chicken and beef.
  • Waiting until Black Friday to buy essentials like new tires.

What do they splurge on?

  • $45 a week on swimming lessons for one daughter.
  • A $4,500 birthday party when their oldest daughter turned 1.
  • One big family vacation each year. They recently spent $5,000 to go to Barbados.

What do they say?

“We’re not just getting by — we have a life.”

— Erika Fernandez-Pacheco

To see more photos of the family and details about their budget, click here.

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Davaughnia Wilson and Tara Terranova contributed to New York Today. You can reach the team at nytoday@nytimes.com.

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