Hey dupa

Want a simple way to build a stronger connection from the very first moment on a date?

Here’s a quick tip:

When you sit down, don’t sit directly across from your date.

It might seem like a small thing, but sitting next to one another or catty-cornered (90 degrees from each other) immediately closes the physical gap.

Why does this work?

When you sit across from someone, it creates distance, and there’s zero chance for physical contact.

But if you sit adjacent, it changes everything.

You can laugh and touch their arm when they make a joke.

High five in joking agreement.

Or conspiratorially people-watch together.

This creates a natural sense of closeness, without the awkwardness of too much space…

And it sets the stage for a more genuine connection right off the bat.

So next time you’re on a date at a restaurant or bar, remember: sit adjacent. It’s a small shift that makes a big difference.

Talk soon,
Charlie

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