Love Letter: My partner is dying. How do we talk about it?

Love Letter: My partner is dying. How do we talk about it?

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Love Letter

July 17, 2026

Talking about death is never easy. So how do you approach those conversations when your partner is the one dying?

Click the link below to read our columnist’s advice on how to navigate end-of-life affairs. You’ll also find a charming Modern Love essay about why one woman needed to date a man who annoyed her and three new romance novels that are filled with fireworks.

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